The Sense of an Ending
I would like to suggest “The Sense of an Ending” by Julian Barnes as an example of a Nexus-like book.
First of all, it is good literature. A recent winner of the Man Booker award, its size, language and content make it very accessible both in time and content.
Secondly, it clearly illustrates the necessity of Nexus. The protagonist desperately needs to be a part of a community of people who will help him understand, interpret and embrace certain past relationships. His people are not like Nexus people. As he ponders what to put on his tombstone, he deliberates between “You are on your own” and “You don’t get it and never have”. These are the messages the two principle relationships in his life have left him. The irony is that like most of us, he really does not want to be on his own and he is working extremely hard to get it.
Thirdly, the book asks the reader to examine and interpret his/her own past. It suggests the role of remorse and new beginnings as interesting parts of this interpretation.
Finally, it is just a good read. Although thematically it is quite profound, the author has used a light style to produce a page turner that has the reader eager to learn how the protagonist´s quest for a sense to an ending unfolds.
If you have read the book, I would enjoy hearing your thoughts. If not, then this is simply a recommendation for your consideration.
Craig, June 2014
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This sounds like just the kind of book I need. Thanks. I sometimes think about this question, and wonder what my life amounts to. Considering what to put on one’s tombstone is an interesting though challenging exercise. I hope to post another comment when I have read the book!